07. Human Developmental Chain Formation

How Chains Form in a Human Life
We do not begin life with awareness.
We begin with experience.
Because of this, the earliest cause-and-effect chains are not chosen —
they’re inherited, shaped by the caregiving environment,
and embedded into the body long before a child can think or interpret.
This page follows the unfolding of the chain through the stages of human development, showing how coherence becomes distortion, and how distortion becomes identity.
Infancy (0–1 year): Pure Experience, No Interpretation
A newborn exists in sensation, not sequence.
They have:
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need
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distress
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communication (crying)
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regulation
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relief
But they do not have:
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interpretation
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strategy
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motive
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manipulation
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identity
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a self-generated chain
The parent’s response is the chain.
When the caregiver responds consistently:
cry → comfort → regulation → safety → coherence
The child’s body forms:
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a regulated nervous system
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predictable stress recovery
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early trust in cause and effect
When the caregiver responds inconsistently:
cry → escalation → delay → frustration → eventual soothing → hypervigilance
The child’s body forms:
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early threat detection
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heightened cortisol
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inconsistent regulation
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looping distress patterns
The chain has distorted before the child has any way to understand it.
This is the first inherited architecture.
Early Childhood (1–3 years): Forced Adoption of the Parent’s Chain
Around this age parents shift their responses:
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less picking up
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more expectation of independence
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inconsistent availability
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frustration or distraction
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cultural stories about “spoiling”
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emotional variability
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shifting boundaries
The parent has switched chains.
But the child cannot:
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question
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choose
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generate alternatives
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understand inconsistency
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hold awareness
So the child absorbs the chain they are given, even if it contradicts their earliest experience.
Distortion in this stage becomes:
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clinginess
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protest
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shutdown
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people-pleasing
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increased reactivity
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fear of separation
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early behavioural loops
This is not personality.
It’s adaptation to a chain the child did not choose.
Ages 3–7: Awareness Begins, Behaviour Becomes the Expression of the Chain
This is the first stage where the child begins testing cause and effect intentionally:
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“If I cry, what happens?”
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“If I yell, what changes?”
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“If I hide, does it stop?”
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“If I help, do they smile?”
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“If I stay quiet, is everyone calm?”
The chain now lives inside them.
Distorted caregiving becomes distorted behaviour:
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aggression
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withdrawal
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excessive helping
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avoidance
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caretaking
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meltdown cycles
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hypervigilance masked as “shyness”
They’re not “acting out.”
They’re running the chain they inherited, in the only way they can.
This is the moment where patterns begin to look personal —
even though they are not.
Ages 7–12: Identity Attaches to the Chain
At this stage, the chain becomes self-concept.
The child begins saying:
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“I’m sensitive.”
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“I’m too much.”
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“I’m the good one.”
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“I’m the problem.”
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“I’m responsible.”
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“I’m anxious.”
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“I’m quiet.”
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“I’m easygoing.”
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“I’m the one who keeps everyone calm.”
These identities are narratives created to explain the chain,
not reflections of who the child truly is.
The distorted chain becomes:
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personality
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morality
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self-worth
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worldview
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attachment style
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emotional expectation
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relational pattern
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behavioural predictability
The child believes they are the chain.
This is the moment distortion becomes deeply embodied.
Adolescence: The First Attempt to Break the Chain
Adolescence is not rebellion.
It is the body’s first attempt to create a new chain.
The adolescent senses:
“This chain isn’t mine.”
So they push:
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boundaries
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identity edges
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social norms
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emotional intensity
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independence
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roles, rules, expectations
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versions of self
This is an attempt at architectural rupture, not defiance.
But without a coherent alternative, the adolescent oscillates:
reject chain → attempt new one → collapse → re-enter old chain
This looks chaotic because it is.
The system is trying to exit a distorted structure without having the capacity to build a replacement yet.
Adulthood: Circling, Collapsing, and Replacing Chains
Adulthood is where the inherited chain fully reveals itself:
Circling
Repeating the same patterns with different people and situations.
Not because of fate — because the chain is still running.
Looping
Protective behaviours activate automatically:
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people-pleasing
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avoidance
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control
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shutdown
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hypervigilance
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emotional reactivity
These are not flaws — they are the body maintaining the old chain.
Collapse
The chain reaches its limit:
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burnout
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loss
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relational rupture
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identity crisis
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existential awakening
Collapse is the signal that the old chain can no longer sustain itself.
Replacement
Awareness finally breaks the architecture.
A new chain becomes available.
This is the first moment a human actually has choice:
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follow the old chain
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build a coherent one
This is where integration begins.
Development Shapes the Chain — But Awareness Rewrites It
Humans inherit the first chain.
They do not choose it.
They learn the second chain.
They do not choose that, either.
The first true moment of autonomy comes when:
the old chain collapses
and the new one appears.
Everything beyond this point is integration.